There are two forms of hate, as hate and love coincide, and therefore are bound to one another. Only when one has felt the gracious feelings of love, and experienced its effects on the body and the mind, can one be a truly destructive mind. ‘A destructive mind is a loving one’
And it really comes down to this;
Love, or what is it is, has to be discovered, and it is probably the greatest thing you will ever learn. No matter how stupid other people call it.

Most people will get a chance, one or more. They get a chance to share that feeling of love with someone else. And it really is the best things around. But as a large portion of readers will realize. That chance can be missed out on. And years later you discover that that person who you loved, really was love. That between you two, there was this real, true and pure feeling of love, that makes you want to spend your lives together. And you can be so angry at yourself. That you didn’t see it when you had the chance, that you didn’t take it, when you still had it. And the common sense here applies; You don’t know what you got till it is gone.
For these people, a life of anger, or twisted feeling, that they already missed out on their best chance, will perhaps haunt them. But that isn’t always necessary  you can move on, if you become mad at yourself, you found out what love really is all bout, and you might get a chance, and maybe not. If not, yes, you can be angry at yourself. It would be the most logical course of action.
But there is another kind of people. The ones mostly forgotten about the world. You see, some happy few people. They know, and learn to appreciate what love is, before they even get the chance. They already know how valuable the precious feeling is, and will certainly respect it when it comes. If you think this is great, remember everything has a downside. So has this. Cause even though they know and understand what love is all about. It is in no way a guarantee that they will get a chance to share it.
And what is to become of these people? Are they doomed to recognize the love in the world, to see the splendor in the eyes of others? That is perhaps what they will
Because those who know what love is, but didn’t get a chance, haven’t got themselves to be angry add. They can only be angry at the world, for not getting a chance. And being angry at the entire world, is just silly. They can’t be angry at everything at once, they can’t even make a choice at what to be angry, one thing at a time. They have anger inside them, that cannot be expressed, because they can do no other then love the world, they already understand.
If you ever meet one of those first kind of persons. Give them a hug, tell them it wasn’t their fault. And that luck will cross their paths eventually. If you ever meet one of the last persons, Listen to them. Listen to them very carefully. Because it will not be every day, that you will meet someone, who understands love, inside hates everything, but has only love to give. Look into their eyes, try and learn from them, and perhaps, just very perhaps, you will be seeing them get their chance. Then no longer listen, but look. As I truly believe, that these kind of people, know, not just how to love. But how to love, be loved, and love the world in return all at the same time.

Namaste.